Hello world -„Tobias Comeback“

As the calendar turns over to a new year, many of us find ourselves reflecting on the past and planning for the future. The concept of a „fresh start“ is often associated with New Year’s Day, a time when we set goals, envision new beginnings, and dream of positive change. But is January 1st the only opportunity for renewal? 

 

The truth is, every day—indeed,

every moment is a chance to begin anew. Life reminds us of this through its many challenges and victories, offering lessons that encourage us to trust, breathe, and have faith.

The Power of a New Day

Each sunrise brings with it the promise of a new beginning, a fresh slate. This idea isn’t confined to the arbitrary turning of a calendar page. Life teaches us, often through its trials, that growth and renewal are continual processes. Tobias, for example, faced pain today—a hard and disheartening experience for both him and those who love him. Pain has a way of clouding hope, but hope is precisely what carries us forward. It’s the light that helps us navigate the shadows, reminding us that pain is temporary and challenges are stepping stones.

The scriptures echo this sentiment beautifully. In the Bible, we find these reassuring words:

„The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.“ (Lamentations 3:22-23)

Every day is a gift. God’s mercies are new with each dawn, offering us opportunities to grow, heal, and trust in His guidance.

Learning to Trust and Breathe

During difficult days, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. But these moments teach us valuable lessons about patience and resilience. Tobias finds relief through relaxation and medication, tools that remind us of the importance of care and intention in overcoming adversity. For me, learning to breathe—literally and metaphorically—has been essential. Deep breaths help ground me in the present, while trust anchors me to the hope of better days ahead.

The Book of Mormon offers this encouraging scripture:

„Therefore, ye must press forward with a steadfastness in Christ, having a perfect brightness of hope, and a love of God and of all men. Wherefore, if ye shall press forward, feasting upon the word of Christ, and endure to the end, behold, thus saith the Father: Ye shall have eternal life.“ (2 Nephi 31:20)

 

Hope is an active practice, one that requires perseverance and faith. By trusting in God’s plan and relying on the strength He provides, we can endure trials with grace and purpose.

Small Steps, Big Change

The idea of starting anew applies not only to our mindset but also to the actions we take. Every goal, no matter how grand, begins with small steps. For Tobias, the desire to walk has inspired a new exercise regimen focused on daily squats. These exercises strengthen the muscles he’ll need to stand and move independently. This effort embodies the principle that progress is built incrementally—20 squats lead to 40, then 60, and so on. Each small success brings him closer to his goal.

 

Similarly, I’ve decided to resume running. Starting with short distances like 1 kilometer, I’ll gradually build endurance and reclaim a practice that brings me joy and health. These small, intentional steps serve as reminders that transformation doesn’t happen overnight. It’s the steady, persistent effort that leads to meaningful change.

Expanding Horizons Through Learning

These programs symbolize our commitment to intellectual growth and perseverance. For Tobias, this journey is particularly meaningful as he works to practice learning again. Since his brain bleed in August of 2021, we’ve needed to start at a lower level, focusing on foundational concepts that will help him rebuild the skills and knowledge he once had. Whether tackling a challenging algebra problem or exploring the basics of biology, each lesson is a step forward, strengthening his capacity to face life’s complexities with confidence and hope for continued growth.

A Shift in Perspective

Society places great importance on dates and milestones, but in truth, a date is just a number—a tool that helps us organize our lives. The real magic lies in the decisions we make each day. Our lives are unwritten stories, filled with potential for joy, growth, and purpose. By focusing on what we can improve or change today, we shape the narrative of our tomorrow.

For Tobias, that narrative includes a revised therapy schedule, a new tool that’s on its way, and our educational initiatives. These steps reflect a commitment to growth and learning, no matter the challenges faced. Similarly, my goals include running and supporting Tobias in his journey. Together, we’re building a life rooted in hope, faith, and action.

The Role of Faith and Creativity

Navigating life’s ups and downs requires a strong foundation of faith and a willingness to embrace creativity. Faith gives us the courage to trust in things we cannot see, while creativity allows us to find solutions and opportunities in unexpected places. When Tobias has difficult days, I lean on both these tools to guide me. Faith reassures me that the pain will pass, and creativity helps me find ways to support him and adapt to new circumstances.

Goals as Guiding Stars

 

While it’s important to acknowledge the open-ended potential of each day, setting goals provides direction and purpose. Goals act as guiding stars, helping us navigate the vast possibilities of life. They don’t bind us to a single path but instead encourage us to move forward with intention. Whether it’s building physical strength, pursuing education, or cultivating spiritual growth, goals give us something to strive for.

 

Embracing Tomorrow with Hope

 

Tomorrow is unwritten—a blank page waiting for the stories we’ll create. By embracing the idea that every day is a fresh start, we free ourselves from the limitations of past mistakes and future uncertainties. We can approach each day with hope, trusting that God’s mercies will renew us and guide us through whatever comes our way.

 

As we move forward, let us remember the words of Lamentations and 2 Nephi, which remind us of God’s unwavering love and the power of hope. With faith, creativity, and perseverance, we can face challenges, celebrate victories, and make each                                                                                 day a meaningful chapter in the story of our lives.

Thanks for sharing our journey!

Lots of love and best wishes for the new year, 

Katja, Tyler and Tobias